Help for Victims

Below are links to help services, male abuse communities, various support systems and friends for male victims and survivors.  If a professional person or organization is listed here, they will provide help to males and WILL NOT turn you away.


Childhelp’s National Child Abuse Hotline 1.800.4-A-CHILD
National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE
RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline 1.800.656.HOPE
Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men & Women 1.888.743.5754
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline `1-800-273-TALK’


Child Sexual Abuse

Darkness To Light ( Child Sexual Abuse )

Partners In Prevention

Intimate Partner Abuse Prevention for Males

Partners in Prevention ( Recognizing, Preventing and Reporting Child Abuse and Neglect )


Sexually Abused Male Services

1 in 6 ( Resources for Therapy, Professionals, Education, Family and Friends )

Male Survivor ( Membership Supported Organization with Conferences and Workshops ) ( Empowering Kids to Speak Out About Sexual Abuse )

Andrew Vachss: Male Victims of Sexual Abuse Journal References

Pandora’s Project ( Support and resources for survivors of rape and sexual abuse )

Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

Together We Heal ( Cost-Free counseling for survivors of childhood sexual abuse )

Domestic Violence, Abused Men Services

MenWeb ( Help for Battered Men )

Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

Male Abuse ( Domestic Violence General Resourse List )

Rebuilding Lives

National Center for Victims of Crime ( Helps victims rebuild their lives; all forms of abuse and crime )

Gay Services

LAMBDAGeneral Information )

Gay Men’s Domestic Violence Project ( GLBTQDVP; 24-Hour Hotline: 1.800.832.1901 )

LA Gay and Lesbian Center ( Los Angeles )

SF Victim Services ( San Francisco )

Emotional Abuse

Emotional Abuse Described

Emotional Abuse Help


Stalk: to pursue obsessively and to the point of harassment. Merriam-Webster

Michael G. Conner, Psy.D gives great tips on how to deal with stalkers.

Stalking Defined by Charles E. Corry, Ph.D.

Cyberparent ( Men and Physical Abuse by Spouses or Girlfriends )

Specialized Services

Help for Male Military Spouses

Cults:  Males are tempting targets for cults and radical groups that abuse people. If you are considering becoming part of an unusual social group, please do some research so you will be able to recognize if you are getting yourself into an abusive situation. If you are with one of these groups you are most likely still being victimized.
Some help and information can be found at the links below.

Munchausen by Proxy is when someone is causing illness or injury in another to obtain attention; usually by a parent or caregiver against a child.
This normally happens to children who cannot yet speak, but there have been cases recorded with older children as well.  For more information on this syndrome, see the KidsHealth web site.

Legal Help for Abuse, US

Child Sex Abuse Attorney O’Donnell Clark & Crew LLP

NOVA: Network of Victims Assistance ( Child Abuse Victim’s Legal Information )

Equal Justice Foundation ( General Legal Information )

Substance Abuse Help

Information on Substance Abuse ~

Quit Day~ Smoking Use and Mental Health

Find Treatment~

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